What's love?

I haven't been on in a while, but as always life continues. Being in a relationship with a man that has kids and a past creates problems with trust, loyalty and feelings. I'm deeply in love with my boyfriend, but with 6 kids of his own and "still in love baby mommas" friction is easy. I want a life with him, but with me being so much younger its hard to find stability with him. A recent arguement sprung the fact that he wasn't sure if he wants me to meet his children, something I been wanting to do for a year now. But everyone is very specific about what they want their children being exposed to. I love him so I guess I have to love everything that comes with him right?